Part 4 of 6 in the "Can I see a TCM practitioner while preparing for pregnancy" series. Part 1 covers what this stage is; part 5, the angle TCM theory takes.
Preconception care is, by definition, provided to women and couples — the World Health Organization definition Malaysia's Ministry of Health manual adopts. This part finishes the "both of you" thought: what public health bodies advise the two of you, and what a practitioner raises at a consultation.
The short version
- Smoking and alcohol: all men and women in reproductive age should avoid smoking, consuming alcohol and other types of drug abuse — that is the manual.
- Weight and age are both two-person matters. Singapore's HealthHub states that being underweight, overweight or obese may cause ovulation- or sperm-related issues, and notes that for men sperm quality deteriorates with age.
- At the start of a consultation the practitioner checks what you are taking, and whether a period is late.
- Three options: acupuncture, herbal medicine, a direction for routine and eating — options in practice, not promises of a result.
- Tonics, si wu, a tonic packet from family: have the practitioner look at them before you start. If your doctor prescribed it, never stop it on your own.
- Severe abdominal pain, heavy bleeding, or fever with lower abdominal pain: call 999 now, or go to the nearest hospital emergency department.
I. Advice that applies to both partners (the sourced part)

- Smoking and alcohol. All men and women in reproductive age should have a healthy lifestyle; avoid unhealthy habits like smoking, consuming alcohol and other types of drug abuse — that is how the Ministry of Health manual's pre-pregnancy health education puts it. The World Health Organization says the same: lifestyle factors such as smoking, excessive alcohol intake and obesity can affect fertility.
- Weight. Being underweight, overweight or obese may cause ovulation- or sperm-related issues — Singapore's HealthHub states it plainly. That is a two-person matter, not one side's.
- Sleep and movement. Six to eight hours of sleep a day to ensure adequate rest; regular exercise decreases stress — both sentences are in the manual's pre-pregnancy health education.
- Age. For men, sperm quality deteriorates with age — the note on the same HealthHub page. "Only the woman's age matters" does not hold.
Not one of the four is addressed to a single person. The manual says it directly too: husband and wife must be supportive and actively participate in enhancing each other's health.
A note: this section is general information only. For conditions like these, follow your doctor's diagnosis and treatment, and seek medical attention when you need it.
II. What the practitioner asks first, and the options raised
The medication list and "could you already be pregnant" come first. At the start of a consultation the practitioner checks what you take — medication, supplements, tonics — and whether a period is late, because the direction changes accordingly. Keep taking what your doctor prescribed; never stop it on your own. If you take anticoagulant or antiplatelet medication, have both your doctor and your practitioner review any herb or tonic before you start; see "Can You Take Chinese Herbs With Western Medication?".
Three options: acupuncture, herbs, lifestyle direction. Acupuncture, concentrated herbal granules, and a direction for routine and eating — the practitioner explains which fit this stage and which do not. How acupuncture is handled at this stage is in part 6.
These are options in practice, not promises of a result. No part of this series says "what the effect will be" — that belongs to an individual assessment, not to an article.
III. Tonics, si wu, and that number on the packaging
Declare it, then start. Some Chinese herbs may have untoward influences on pregnant women or fetuses — that is Hong Kong's Chinese Medicine Regulatory Office. So at this stage, have the practitioner look at any tonic packet from family, si wu, or red date tea before you start, and stop and ask the moment a pregnancy is suspected.
The list is not only prescriptions. What the manual's antenatal history asks for is "drug history (traditional medication and other self-prescribed medicines)" — traditional and self-prescribed medicine in the same breath. So whatever came from a counter, from family or from direct sales goes on it too, one copy for the doctor and one for the practitioner (the last item on the part 2 table).
There is a number on the packaging you can check first. In Malaysia, registered medicines, traditional and proprietary Chinese medicines included, carry a registration number beginning with MAL and a Meditag hologram on the packaging — that is the Ministry of Health's Pharmaceutical Services Programme. Products and remedies of unknown origin, or with no registration number, sit outside that review.
But a number does not mean "suitable to take now": it says whether the product went through registration review, and whether it suits you is for the doctor and the practitioner to judge.
💡 Remember: this section is about how to raise it, not what to take. This series recommends no tonic and no herb, and states no dose.
First, the things that cannot wait
Severe abdominal pain, heavy bleeding, or fever with lower abdominal pain — call 999 now, or go to the nearest hospital emergency department. The NHS's pelvic inflammatory disease page puts pelvic pain that is severe or getting worse, pelvic pain with heavy bleeding from the vagina, and a very high temperature at the call-999 tier; the same page describes pelvic inflammatory disease as an infection that affects the womb, fallopian tubes and ovaries.
Periods absent for a long stretch or a marked change in the cycle, bleeding between periods or after sex — get this checked. Vaginal bleeding that is unusual for you, including bleeding between periods and during or after sex, is listed among the symptoms of cervical cancer by the NHS.
The full list, and the reason for four of them, are in part 6. TCM and Western medicine complement each other; it is not a choice between them.
A note: this section is general information only. For conditions like these, follow your doctor's diagnosis and treatment, and seek medical attention when you need it.
Fitting it into life in Malaysia
- Kopi, teh tarik and eating out. No need to fix it first and then report it. How many cups, at what time, how much of the week is eaten out — say it as it is. It is information.
- A tonic packet from family, a soup pack from the medical hall, a direct-sales supplement. Mention those too, and look for a MAL registration number on the packaging. The practitioner needs to know what you are actually taking.
Frequently asked
Can I drink si wu while preparing for pregnancy? Ask first; there is no blanket yes. Si wu is a formula that TCM theory files under "nourishing blood", but whether it suits you, and whether it suits now, is the practitioner's judgement after seeing your situation. Hong Kong's Chinese Medicine Regulatory Office states that some Chinese herbs may have untoward influences on pregnant women or fetuses, so the moment a pregnancy is suspected, stop and ask both sides. What "nourishing blood" means inside the theory is in part 5.
The words in this part
- Anticoagulant / antiplatelet medication (抗凝血与抗血小板类药物) — two classes of prescription medicine that affect how blood clots. If you take either, have both your doctor and your practitioner review any herb or tonic before you start.
- Concentrated herbal granules (浓缩中药粉) — one of the forms a practitioner may raise, taken dissolved in water.
- Si wu (四物) — a formula TCM theory files under "nourishing blood", sold in Malaysia most often as a soup pack. Whether it suits you, and whether it suits now, is the practitioner's judgement.
- MAL registration number and Meditag hologram — the two things on the packaging of a registered medicine in Malaysia. The Ministry of Health's Pharmaceutical Services Programme states that registered medicines must carry both.
The other five parts
- Part 1: Can I see a TCM practitioner while preparing for pregnancy — what this stage is, and how long before you see a doctor
- Part 2: What the pre-pregnancy checks usually include, and where each belongs
- Part 3: What three of those checks are looking for — thalassaemia, rubella, folic acid
- Part 5: How TCM theory reads this stage — 天癸 and 冲任
- Part 6: When to see a doctor first
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Sources
- Ministry of Health Malaysia, Perinatal Care Manual 4th Edition (released May 2023), Appendix 1-8 Pre Pregnancy Health Education — https://hq.moh.gov.my/bpkk/images/PERINATAL_CARE_MANUAL_4th_Edition_2020_11Mei2023.pdf
- World Health Organization, Infertility fact sheet, 28 November 2025 — https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/infertility
- Singapore MOH HealthHub, Debunking 5 Myths of Fertility Health, last reviewed 4 May 2026 — https://www.healthhub.sg/well-being-and-lifestyle/sexual-health/debunking-5-myths-of-fertility-health
- Hong Kong Department of Health, Chinese Medicine Regulatory Office, Adverse Reactions of Chinese Medicines — https://www.cmro.gov.hk/html/eng/useful_information/public_health/pamphlet/Adverse_Reactions_of_CM.html
- Ministry of Health Malaysia, Pharmaceutical Services Programme FAQ, How to identify medicines that are registered with MOH — https://pharmacy.moh.gov.my/en/faq/how-identify-medicines-are-registered-moh.html
- NHS (UK), Pelvic inflammatory disease, page last reviewed 17 December 2025 — https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/pelvic-inflammatory-disease-pid/
- NHS (UK), Cervical cancer — Symptoms, page last reviewed 4 September 2024 — https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/cervical-cancer/symptoms/



